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Thought Thought (Day 58: 27-Aug-2013)
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Encouragement
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Thought Thought (Day 57: 26-Aug-2013)
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Resist and Master
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Thought Thought (Day 52: 21-Aug-2013)
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Face Change
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Thought Thought (Day 51: 20-Aug-2013)
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Thought Thought (Day 50: 19-Aug-2013)
the idea of giving up. |
In the recent history, who else can I site as an example for this
quote, other than Steve Jobs?
After starting his dream company, reaching mentionable heights in the field,
being thrown away from his own company would have made a weak person get into a
cocoon with a one-way door. He knew what
success to him was and did not have a second thought about whether to try again
or not. He knew never to ever to give up on one’s dream.
He knew the way to win again. He once again started a new organization
NeXT Computer, which was acquired by Apple itself and he was back in his parent
company as the de facto chief. He went on to rule the entertainment market
owning PIXAR and Disney, as well.
Being a true entrepreneur, when his health deteriorated, he stepped
down from his pedestal and bid a graceful goodbye to the kingdom he created.
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Thought Thought (Day 46: 15-Aug-2013)
To the fullest :) |
Preetha had just got married and was in tears. She was forced
by her family into marrying this person, to save their reputation. She gave in
to their wishes because she loved her family more than herself. But she knew in
her heart that this new relationship would not last long.
Within six months into the marriage, everyone else in the
family too knew this would not last long. But still they wanted her to continue
living with the person, once again to save their reputation. She forgot how to
smile, or make friends and even shop anything nice for herself. Preetha decided
this time that she has to come to a conclusion for herself else both she and
her “husband” would be in pain all through their lives.
She stood to her stand and filed for a divorce. She lived alone
for 2 years and that period of being on he own changed her perception of life.
She met a guy who was able to make her smile and laugh at silly jokes. Though a
little hesitant at first, she learnt to love again.
Preetha took her time in believing a new chapter in her life
was opening up in her life. She wanted to be sure that she too could have a
happy family of her own. And during the monsoon, she and her guy tied the knot.
She knew what happiness in sharing was all about. He taught her it was good to
sometimes make bad decisions and face failures, because it helps us to be clear
when we take the next step in our lives. He was right; Preetha’s failure taught
her to keep her happiness as priority for the first time in her life. She knew
with all her heart that she had made the right decision in marrying him. In spite of few misunderstanding now and then,
all she had in her life was love, laughter and happiness.
Seeing her happy, her family too came around and were happy
with the turn of events. May be this is what they call the “Happily Ever After…..”.
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Thought Thought (Day 45: 14-Aug-2013)
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Acceptance
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Thought Thought (Day 44: 13-Aug-2013)
can makes wonders happen. |
Even as a kid, Ramana was a sports enthusiast. He would
force his mom to give him those milk shakes that the commercials claimed to
help kids gain intelligence and strength. Without doubt, he was the favorite
student of his PT teachers. He took part in all sports activity in his school
and won many prizes in both internal and inter-school sports meets.
His parents knew well what their child aspires and did not
force him to excel in his studies. They only wanted what was best for him.
Ramana did just enough in his studies to get promoted every year. The school
management too knew that Ramana was a rare treasure and helped him with
whatever support he required. He spent almost all his time into being an ace in
all the sports he could get access to. He was good in indoor games like chess, and table tennis as well as those games that
required more physical fitness like cricket and basketball.
While he was in his 7th grade, he had a growth
spurt and was the taller than most students his age. He was selected into the
school basketball team even before he turned 15. His skill, interest and
enthusiasm earned him a place in the state junior level basketball team and he
travelled all over the country with his team and brought back accolades. When
he was not playing basketball, he was busy making his mark in the TT domain as
well.
All went well until his coaches noticed that he was not
getting any taller and feared his future in the basketball genre once he
graduated from high school. He was only as tall as a normal 15 year old and
that was sufficient for a junior team. His growth was hindered after he turned
15. They were worried that this promising star would not make it to the senior
level team. Ramana joined a college under its sports quota. Ramana was not
accepted into the senior basketball team just as was feared. His small body
frame made the coaches from college overlook his gaming skills, though we could
see few not-so-tall players in a team.
Recommendations and repeated talks with the coaches did not
help. This pushed Ramana in to depression since this was the first rejection he
ever faced; and worse still in a game he was good at. He was counseled by
professionals, was made to concentrate on the silver lining and to ignore the
dark cloud engulfing him.
His medical instability became a threat to his education as
well since he was a student enrolled under the sports quote. With his parents’
guidance, Ramana was able to overcome his haunts and started focusing on what
he could do next.
In his dejected mind-set, he had forgotten that he was an ace in Table Tennis as well. He knew height was not a constraint in TT; focused all his energy in
that direction and stood up as an individual winner instead of winning
trophies just as part of a team. He learnt to live with the things that can't be
changed and made changes which would benefit him.
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Thought Thought (Day 43: 12-Aug-2013)
There was once this dude from a village, who studied hard,
scored well and finished his master’s in from a not-so-prominent business
school. After multiple rejections from different firms, he made a life changing
decision to his attitude and within no time was recruited as an entry level
executive with a sales firm.
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Though he was the only one among his peers to be not from a
top business school, there were always people wanting to listen to him. He had
what others lacked. He trained himself to be a very confident guy. In his zeal
to win, he ignored all trivialities surrounding his profession. His ignorance
over things that could pull him down helped him pull himself up quicker.
His confidence in pitching and presentations won him
accolades from the management as well as the clients. The confidence that
poured out of him impressed the clients that they trusted the organization as
whole; which it in turn brought in lot of business to the firm. He kept
climbing the corporate latter faster than was expected. He did not hold the
growth to himself; he helped his co-workers realise the magic of confidence and
they all grew up together.
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Thought Thought (Day 41: 10 Aug 2013)
Against the wind and win. |
There was once this old fish in a small pond. He had always
lived there. His family and the generations before him. It was in the midst of
dense trees a little away from the concrete jungle. The pond was fed by a
stream from up north. The fishes had the perfect home they could ask for; hidden
from man by the trees, water cooled by the shady trees and allowing just enough
sun to warm them.
Only few urchin kids from the houses on the edge knew of
this pond. They loved it and the fishes were their friends. They used to bring treats
for them like worms and puffed rice. The kids used to trace the path of the
watering stream and play in it for hours together.
In the increasing hunt for land, humans started encroaching this
area as well. They decided to empty the pond and use up all the area to build
high rise living quarters. This fish in our story sensed something was amiss.
He noticed too much of movement and noise around their abode. He warned the
other fishes in the pond but they did not to believe him. They were so used to
the comfort and had taken for granted that nothing bad will befall them.
In the following days, the other fishes too observed that
the kids were shooed away by grown-up humans. Suddenly, there was such a force
in the pond that the water seemed to move fast towards one direction. The
younger fish in the pond got excited to see this gushing movement in their
ever-silent pond and leapt in to the direction, never to be seen again. The wise old fish sensed it was against the
nature of the pond and adviced the rest to move up the stream before it was too
late.
Since the missing of the younger fish, the rest of the crowd
trusted the elder fish and started their tiring journey against the flow of
water, towards the stream’s source. As you would have guessed by now, the pond
was emptied and a dam was built along the stream. All the fishes from the pond
made a wise move to go against the direction of flow and survived to tell their
story to the generations to come.
When things go against you, realize that things are not
always the way it should be and take the path not taken and succeed.
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Thought Thought (Day 39: 8-Aug-2013)
Never Ever Quit. |
Soon after her little bundle of joy arrived, Karka kept
complaining of mild pain in the chest more often than ever. Elders at home and her
husband narrowed it down to motherhood and that it was because she was not nursing
the baby. Karka too accepted the pain with guilt, since she was not nursing the
baby due to medical conditions and was advised not to by the doctors.
Months passed but her pain did not vanish. Home remedies and pain related treatment did
not help. A TV show on breast cancer set a spark of doubt in her. She approached a cancer institute and was diagnosed with
what she feared it would be.
All the chemo, bad appetite, weight loss and balding head pushed her into
depression. This in turn took a toll on her family as well. She stopped caring
for her little child as she thought she would anyway die before the kid knew
its mother well.
A long lost friend hers heard of the plight and decided to
help her. She did not meet her or call her up to provide moral support. All she
did was send a HUGE poster with a note to Karka’a husband to put it up in a
place that Karka would see most of the time.
The poster irritated Karka and she deemed her friend to be
insensible. She screamed that her friend did not know what she was going
through, that it was always easy to advice and also tried to destroy the poster.
But her husband knew the best thing to do was to keep it where it was.
As days went by, the words in the poster started making
sense to her. It had these powerful sentence “Winners never quit and Quitters
never win.” It was telling her to get up and live her life to fullest. Karka
then decided to have one rule is life - “Never Quit” and every time she had a
bad day, she remembered the rule of her life.
Days turned to weeks, weeks to months and months to a year
and she fought her cancer and she won. She is a survivor, she is a winner.
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Thought Thought (Day 37: 06 Aug 2013)
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Thought Thought (Day 36 - 5 Aug 2013)
in bad and make best of it to your benefit. |
Success is sweetest when you were able to come out of your
own doubts and break free from inhibitions to achieve your goal.
This is about a guy who was unwell as a child. He had a
medical complication that did not allow him to attend regular school like the
rest of us. He was home tutored for few years, then attended private coaching
classes and cleared his higher secondary board exams. He scored pretty well,
but then in our Indian scenario universities/ colleges do not give preference
to private students. It was fated that these students have to continue their studies
through distance education again. Even if they do graduate thus, corporate
firms do not hire them.
This was what happened to our guy as well. He was pushed
into an abyss with not much opportunity to be like a normal kid his age. He was
very depressed over his fate; hated everything and blamed everyone for his
status. (Let us not talk about the school or college drop-outs who later ruled
the world. This is only about this kid who wanted nothing more than be accepted
as any other student from the main stream schools/ colleges).
During this phase between high school and college admission,
he took up social work in search of inner peace. He came across people who were
under privileged than him making something productive of what they had. His inferiority complex of “I am unable; it is
impossible for me to achieve anything” changed for the better. Every day he
woke up with the thought “It is POSSIBLE; I am ABLE”. The thought change in him
opened new roads and new opportunities.
He finished his under-grad via distance education; took up
extra courses; started inventing gadgets that the under privileged (who
inspired him) could use to better their livelihood. He also made sure to patent
his inventions. His growing popularity among the public earned his name and
fame. The same university that denied him admission earlier made him their permanent
guest of honor and offered open invitation as their trainer. The main stream
students thronged to learn from him.
Today, during every lecture or training session he starts by
encouraging everyone to believe is the magic words “POSSIBLE and ABLE” and how
it made a huge impact in his life.
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Thought Thought (Day 33 - 2 Aug 2013)
can make you who you want to be. |
I want to share my own experience today. This was when I was
in my 2nd or 3rd std, all I wanted to do was play, play
and play some more. Though playing is good, it did not take me anywhere and
make me think any different than already. Way back then, we did not have a TV
in most of the houses and we would wait for weekend to throng out community
recreation center to watch Chitrahar and Appu-Aur-Pappu. And in school, we were
made to watch some science related stuff on some days – can’t remember what.
Later, when TVs became popular, I was totally addicted to it (I still am, but
just not able to find time to give in to the addiction).
May be dad thought that I was becoming an idiot in front of
the big box. He gave me the most wonderful gift I’ve ever received till date. A
subscription with the local library. A voracious reader himself, he encouraged
me read anything and everything I could get access to. He said I might, at some
point, like a genre which I would like better than others. Reading books opened
a new world to me. It let my imagination fly with every book I read.
A book can create an entirely different imagination to each
person who reads it. It encourages us to think beyond what reaches the eyes. As
they say, books are always a man’s best friend (the other is the dog, of
course). Though I love watching all
those travel & movie channels on TV, I personally feel it limits your
thought process. Everything is presented in front of you and says “this is it”.
You tend to accept it and move on with life. But with books, even before you finish
a story, you can come up with different climaxes and endings. You can alter the
story as you feel best. Not so with what is on TV.
I do not know if I have become an extraordinary person by
having a small library at home or reading lots of books, but I sure have learnt
about many extraordinary people. In fact, all that information has made me
extra-ordinary; books have humbled me :)
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Thought Thought (Day 32 - 1 Aug 2013)
is only an excuse.
There were these twin brothers Gagan and Akash, who grew up
together with the same kind of opportunities spread before them. They dreamed
about joining the prestigious Harvard University for graduation, prepared for it
right from their high school days. Gagan
and Akash were both academically strong. Years passed with their passion
growing every day. When it was time to apply for their preferred courses, they
had all the grades and financial means such that the university had no other
option but to enroll both of them.
As fate would have it, Akash met with an
accident the same month they had to travel to MA. He lost his eye sight and was
paralyzed down from the hips in the accident and becomes ineligible to join for
the course he opted for. He was a very positive child and he coaxed Gagan to go
ahead and conquer the world through Harvard, as they always wanted to.
Akash was not a loser. He recovered his mental strength in
no time and started analyzing what else he could do to be at Harvard. He knew
in his heart that his other passion “music” was his ticket to Harvard. He knew
it was better late than never. He invested all his persuasiveness and stamina
into making music his métier. By end of two years, he had gained his eye sight
partially. He once again applied for Harvard in the Arts and Culture
department, attended all this interviews over video conferencing.
Akash believed failure was an excuse that losers use to not pursue
their dreams. To him, failure was never an option. He was always a winner.
Note on this quote’s origin - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Failure_Is_Not_an_Option
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